There are many who are above thirty going to forty
who never got married and are worried saying, “Why have I not got married”, they
search themselves from one corner to the other finding solution to the reason
why they have not gotten married.
In
this part 1, I will want you to take personal survey of yourself and your life
by answering these questions in a white sheet of paper. This survey will guide
you and do you real good. There are some individual who never take time to
examine themselves when they are in this condition, some even feel there is no
problem and with that they never bother about the situation, people may have
even lough them saying, “As old as you are, you have not married, what a shame”,
some their parent even drove them from home to go and find their husband or
wife before can be accepted, but they are not still worried. But you can do
yourself good by taking this survey and after this survey if you diligently
answer these question wholeheartedly, I assure you, you will be on your way to
your marriage home.
Pick
your pen and paper now to start
1.
What is your name?
2.
How old are you?
3.
Where were you born?
4.
Were born in the hospital? Specify
5.
Where was your navel buried?
6.
Are you born into a Christian, Muslim, or
Idolatry home?
7.
Were you brought up by your parents or
guardian?
8.
Were you brought up by single parent?
9.
Where do you grow up?
10.
Have at any time serve idol?
11.
Were any inscription encrypt into your
body?
12.
Have you find out why you were mark with
the mark in your body?
13.
Was any covenant made for by your
parents?
14.
Were you dedicated to any idol?
15.
Do you have any idol
16.
What the dreams you always have?
17.
What is the most fearful dream you have
ever had?
18.
Do you have a boy or girl friend you
used to have sex with?
19.
Has any haberlist made incantation on
your life?
20.
Have at any made sacrifices for any
reason(s) and is for what?
21.
Who are your friends? Name them
22.
How are their life styles?
23.
How have they influence you, positively
or negative?
24.
Do you masturbate?
25.
Are you biologically well to marry?
26.
What is your level of education?
27.
Are you a worker? Name what you do?
28.
Are you self-employ or employed by some
one?
29.
Are you filled of proud?
30.
Do you make any vow that you have not fulfilled?
31.
Are you pet by your parent or relations?
32.
Do you feel self-pity?
33.
Were you ever raped?
34.
Are you fearful any time your mind flash
to marriage?
35.
Are you staying alone or with your
parent or guardian?
36.
What efforts have made to get married?
37.
If you are a lady, has any man approach
you for marriage?
38.
If yes, what was your responds?
39.
Have at any been disappointed by someone
who promised to marry you?
40.
Do you always look down on men who come
on your way?
41.
Do have any guilt in your heart?
I
will stop here but I want you to take a look on your answers, don’t you think
your answers to these questions are in any way the hindrance to your marriage
life? Think about these and if you are in any way affected by these questions,
then you need:
a.
To pray for forgiveness of your sins.
b.
To break every covenant you have made or
someone made it for you.
c.
To go into fasting but must be guided by
a Bible believing Pastor.
d.
You must go for deliverance.
e.
You must make up your mind to get
married.
f.
You must humble yourself.
g.
Detach from some of your friends because
not all are your friends
h.
You must give your life God through the
Lord Jesus Christ.
i.
Read your Bible daily
j.
Live a dedicated and a holy life before
God.
k.
You must park up from keeping any boy
friend or girl friend you used to make love with.
l.
Pray that God should bring you your
husband or God should direct you to the right partner. And this prayer should
said through the person of Jesus Christ.
m.
Believe the prayer you have prayed for
because answers all prayers
Having
done all these, click here for the part 2 of the lesson
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